Saturday, January 18, 2014

Carly

As you all probably know by now, we have taken in a baby girl, her name is Carly.  She came to live with us when she was 8 months, and is now 12 months old.  She is from Tegucigalpa.  Her mom is Cindy, and she is 18 yrs old.  Cindy has spent most of her life in and out of childrens homes, and bouncung around from one place to the other, sometimes living on the street, not having a stable home life. Cindy's mom was a prostitute, and so Cindy didn't grow up in the home with her.  After having Carly, Cindy did what she knew, going from one place to the other, sometimes living on the street, staying wherever she could.  Cindy has been on drugs, and no telling what else.  She did decide though, that she wanted to give her baby a better chance at having a good life, then she had growing up.

Ernie and I, since we have been living in Honduras, have opened up our home to be a place for babies in need of rescuing, and that need to be in a safe place, and also for us to be a transition home for babies that are in the adoption process.  So when we got the call to take Carly, of course we said yes!  So we instantly became Carly's foster family.  It's one of those things where you have no idea how long the child will be with you, could be 2 days, 2 months, 2 years, or forever, we just want to be open to whatever God has for us!

Carly has now been with us for about 4 months, and she has adapted quite well to our family.  Originally the talk was that Cindy wanted her baby to be adopted by a good, Christian family, and so we said we would keep Carly during the adoption process.  Well, Cindy has decided that she does love her baby, and she doesn't want to give her up, so she is now in re hab, and getting her life together.  She is finished with her program in June, but asking for us to keep Carly until October.  We are all about God's restoration, and reunification of the family, so our prayer is that this family can be restored, and that Cindy can get her life in order so she and her baby daughter can be a family.  We know God is in control of this situation, and we pray that His will is done!



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